How to Play What Do You Meme? Party Game Instructions


You’ve seen the memes. You’ve sent the memes. Now it’s time to weaponize them at the table in the most social-media way possible: by trying to make your friends laugh so hard they snort-laugh through their snack plate. What Do You Meme? is a party card game where one player plays “judge,” everyone else submits a caption card, and the judge crowns the funniest combo. Simple rules, endless chaos, and at least one person who insists, “No, noread it again with feeling.”

This guide walks you through setup, round flow, scoring, smart house rules, and real-world tips so your first game night feels like a highlight reelnot a rules debate.

What Do You Meme? in Plain English

Each round, a Photo Card (the image) goes on the easel. Everyone except the judge chooses one Caption Card from their hand to pair with that photo. The judge reads the captions out loud, picks their favorite, and the winner scores the round (usually by keeping the photo as a point/trophy).

The only “strategy” is understanding one critical fact: you’re not writing for the internetyou’re writing for the judge. Your funniest caption might lose to a perfectly judge-targeted dad joke. Welcome to democracy.

What’s in the Box (And Why Your Box Might Look Different)

Most editions come with:

  • Caption Cards (the punchlines)
  • Photo Cards (the images you’re captioning)
  • An easel to display the photo card
  • Instructions (for when your group suddenly becomes “very serious about procedure”)

Card counts vary by edition and release. For example, a core adult version is commonly listed with 360 Caption Cards and 75 Photo Cards, while a GIF-focused edition may list 300 Caption Cards and 75 Photo Cards. Some family-friendly versions use different totals. The practical takeaway: your rules stay basically the sameyour card mix changes.

Before You Start: Quick Setup

1) Choose your vibe (Adult vs. Family-Friendly)

Many versions are designed for a mature audience (often marked 17+). If kids are aroundor your aunt who reports jokes to HRgrab a family-friendly edition. If you’re unsure, check your box front/back for the age rating.

2) Set up the play area

  • Put the easel in the middle where everyone can see it.
  • Shuffle the Caption Cards into a draw pile.
  • Shuffle the Photo Cards into a separate draw pile (or keep them in a stack for the judge to browse, depending on your edition’s style).
  • Leave a little “trophy space” where winners can stack their earned photo cards.

3) Deal hands

Each player draws 7 Caption Cards to start and keeps them hidden. If you’ve ever played a card game and thought, “I wish there was more reading,” congratulationsyou’re already qualified.

4) Pick the first judge

Official instructions often suggest a funny method (like “most Instagram followers” for an adult edition, or “youngest player” for some family versions), but you can also do the timeless classic: choose randomly and move on with your life.

How to Play a Round (Step-by-Step)

Step 1: The judge chooses the Photo Card

The judge picks a Photo Card and makes sure everyone can see itusually by placing it on the easel. Take a second here. Let the image “land.” You want the room to collectively think, “Oh no… this is going to be messy.”

Step 2: Everyone else picks a Caption Card

Every non-judge player chooses one Caption Card from their hand that they think pairs funniest with the Photo Card. Then they pass it to the judge face down so the judge can’t match captions to players. (Because your best friend will absolutely judge you for that caption if anonymity isn’t protected.)

Step 3: The judge shuffles and reads aloud

The judge collects all submitted captions, shuffles them, and reads them out loud one at a time while keeping the Photo Card visible to everyone. This is where the game really becomes a performance. If your judge does dramatic pauses, let them cook.

Step 4: Judge picks the winner

The judge selects the caption they think is the funniest match. There is no court of appeal, no VAR review, and definitely no “but mine is objectively better.” The judge’s taste is the law, and the law is sometimes chaotic.

Step 5: Winner scores

Typically, the winning player keeps the Photo Card as a trophy worth 1 point. (Yes, you are literally collecting memes like rare artifacts. Anthropologists will love this.)

Step 6: Refill hands and pass the judge role

Everyone draws back up to 7 Caption Cards, then the role of judge rotatescommonly to the player on the judge’s left. Repeat until someone wins… or until someone says, “One more round” for the ninth time.

How to Win (And How Long a Game Usually Takes)

Many groups play until someone has the most Photo Cards when you stop, or until someone reaches a target number of Photo Cards (points). Some instructions explicitly encourage you to change the number of Photo Cards needed to win depending on how quick (or how long) you want the game to be.

Practical “game length” presets

  • Quick game: first to 3 Photo Cards
  • Standard game: first to 5 Photo Cards
  • Marathon: first to 7–10 Photo Cards (recommended only if snacks are plentiful)

With 4–8 players who pick quickly, you can often finish a solid game in about 30–60 minutes. Bigger groups usually mean more reading, more laughter, and more time spent saying, “OK, final answerhand it in.”

Bonus Rules and Common Variations (Optional, But Fun)

Freestyle / Make-it-up rounds

Some adult instructions include a Freestyle concept: if a special card comes up, everyone makes up a caption on the spot. If your group is shy, people can write their caption on paper and submit it secretly; if your group is brave, they can say it out loud. This is a great way to turn “quiet players” into “wait, why are you so funny?” players.

Trade-in rule (when your hand is tragic)

If your Caption Cards are a disaster, some versions allow you to trade in one Photo Card you’ve earned to discard your hand and draw a brand-new set of 7. It’s basically a caption-card bailout. Use it wisely. Or dramatically. Your choice.

Add your own photos

Many players love mixing in personal photos (printed appropriately) for an “inside joke” boost. Just remember: keep it fun, not mean. The goal is laughter, not emotional damage.

Judge Wisdom: How to Win More Rounds (Without Being Annoying)

1) Play to the judge, not the room

This is the number-one pro move. Some editions even highlight that the judge decides based on personal opinion, so matching their humor increases your odds. If your judge laughs at puns, give them puns. If they love chaos, give them chaos. If they love wholesome, don’t hand them a caption that sounds like it would get you fired.

2) Let the picture do the heavy lifting

The best captions don’t explain the jokethey unlock the joke already hiding in the photo. If your caption feels like it’s wrestling the image into submission, it’s probably not the one.

3) Timing matters

Judges read captions out loud, and the “last thing we heard” effect is real. If you’re choosing between two great captions, consider which one will hit hardest when spoken.

Tips for Smooth, Hilarious Rounds

  • Use a 20–30 second pick timer if your group freezes. Analysis paralysis is the enemy of comedy.
  • No explaining until after the winner. Defending your joke before the vote is like lobbying the Supreme Court with memes.
  • Read clearly. The judge should slow down just enough that everyone gets itmumbled captions are comedy crimes.
  • Keep the photo visible while reading captions. It really does make it funnier.
  • Rotate judges consistently so nobody feels stuck being “the reader” all night.

Playing With Different Group Sizes

3 players (minimum recommended)

Three players works well: one judge, two captions. Rounds move fast, and the judge choices feel pretty decisive. If it starts to feel repetitive, shorten the win condition (first to 3) and swap in a new edition or expansion next time.

4–8 players (the sweet spot)

This is peak meme energy: enough variety in captions, enough personalities in the room, and the judge still finishes reading before the sun rises.

9+ players (big party mode)

Big groups are loud and hilariousbut they can drag if everyone takes forever choosing a caption. Use a pick timer, keep the judge rotation moving, and consider playing to a lower point total (like first to 3 or 5).

2 players (unofficial options)

Many product listings emphasize 3+ players, but people still try two-player meme battles. One common unofficial approach: both players submit a caption and either (a) agree on the winner by consensus, or (b) leave tied rounds as a “bounty” for the next round. It’s less competitive, more collaborativeand surprisingly fun if you both can handle friendly disagreement without starting a caption war.

Adult vs. Family Editions (And a Quick Note on GIF Editions)

Adult editions

Adult versions are often labeled 17+ due to mature content. They’re best for friend groups who enjoy edgier humor and don’t mind occasional “did we just read that out loud?” moments.

Family editions

Family-friendly versions are designed for a wider age range and keep things more PG. The core round structure stays the samephoto, captions, judge, point but the captions/images are tuned for younger players (and adults who prefer not to clutch pearls).

GIF editions

Some newer editions add GIF content alongside photo cards. The gameplay loop is still “match caption to image,” but the visuals may be refreshed and you may access a GIF library via a QR code depending on the edition. If you’re playing one of these, keep your phone use limited to what the edition needs so game night doesn’t turn into “scroll night.”

FAQ: Quick Answers to Common Questions

Do I have to be “good at memes” to play?

Nope. If you can read a sentence and recognize a funny mismatch between words and a picture, you can play. If you are deep in meme culture, you’ll just have more angles to attack with.

What if the judge is “bad” at judging?

First: breathe. Second: remember the judge is picking what they like. If it becomes a pattern that kills the fun, use a house rule like “judge must explain the choice” (briefly) or rotate judges faster by playing to fewer points.

What if someone keeps trying to explain their caption?

Make a simple rule: no explanations until after the judge picks. If the caption can’t survive the reading, it doesn’t deserve the point. (Yes, that’s harsh. Comedy is a harsh teacher.)

Can we mix expansions or different editions?

Usually yes, as long as the cards are the same type (caption cards with caption cards; photo/image cards with photo/image cards). If you mix adult and family content, announce it upfront so nobody is surprised by the humor shift.

Real-World Game Night Experiences (500+ Words of What It Actually Feels Like)

Here’s the part nobody tells you in the tiny folded instruction sheet: the “rules” are easy, but the room psychology is what makes What Do You Meme? legendary. The first few rounds usually start politepeople submit captions they think the whole table will like. Then someone lands a perfectly judge-targeted caption, the room explodes, and everybody realizes the game is less “be universally funny” and more “understand this specific human’s sense of humor in real time.”

You’ll notice fast that every group develops its own comedy lanes. Some tables love wholesome captions that make the photo look like a sitcom still. Other groups go full absurdist: the captions don’t “match” the photo so much as create a brand-new narrative where the image becomes part of a completely different universe. (A photo of a serious face suddenly becomes “a CEO announcing something ridiculous.” A photo of a confused person becomes “me trying to figure out why I agreed to host game night.”)

The judge rotation keeps the vibe fresh. When one person is judging, everyone learns their preferencesmaybe they love puns, maybe they love dramatic overreactions, maybe they always pick the caption that feels like a perfectly timed text message. When the judge switches, the room’s “meta” switches, too. People who were losing suddenly start winning because the new judge likes their style. It’s the closest a party game gets to a changing-of-the-guard plot twist.

New players often have a mini glow-up moment around round three. That’s when they stop trying to submit “the objectively funniest caption” and start submitting “the caption that will make this judge laugh.” It’s also when the table starts developing running jokescallbacks to earlier rounds, playful “rivalries,” and that one caption everyone keeps referencing like it’s a historic event. (“Remember the round with the caption that made Jordan spit water? That was our Super Bowl.”)

The best game nights also have unspoken etiquette. Nobody wants the game to become mean-spirited, so groups tend to steer away from captions that target someone personally in a hurtful way. The sweet spot is teasing the situation, not the person. If you add personal photos, it’s usually funniest when the photo is flattering but the caption is ridiculouslike turning your friend into a dramatic movie poster, not a roast session.

Pace matters more than perfection. If everyone takes two minutes every round, the energy dips. Fast rounds keep laughter stacked back-to-back, and that’s when the game feels “viral” in the room. A simple timer or a “pick your caption by the time I finish counting down from 20” keeps it moving without being strict. And if someone is stuck because their hand is weak, that’s where the trade-in rule (if your version supports it) can save the nightnobody wants to lose for 30 minutes because they’re holding seven captions that all feel like leftovers.

Finally, expect the game to become a storytelling engine. People start narrating the photo like it’s a scene. Someone reads the caption with theatrical flair. Another person adds a fake “director’s commentary.” Even if you follow the rules exactly, your group will naturally layer on personality. That’s the real secret: What Do You Meme? isn’t just a card gameit’s a permission slip to be silly on purpose.

Final Takeaway

If you remember nothing else, remember this: deal 7 captions, display a photo, submit captions face down, judge reads them out loud, winner takes the photo, refill to 7, rotate the judge, repeat until your cheeks hurt from laughing. Add a couple of house rules for speed, keep the mood playful, and you’ll have a game night that feels like your group chat came to lifeminus the typos (unless your judge reads captions like they’re typos on purpose, which is also funny).